This conversation comes up a lot in chat so I've decided to share it!
While many are familiar with the concept of a ruined orgasm, not everyone is aware of the abandoned orgasm, often confusing the two.
Abandoned:
An abandoned orgasm occurs when you reach the brink of climax and abruptly cease stimulation. This leads to a continued release of semen and a minor sense of gratification.
Ruined:
A genuine ruined orgasm involves approaching the precipice of climax and then terminating stimulation prematurely. Subsequently, a slight bit of additional stimulation from a source other than physical stroking, such as verbal humiliation or another stimulus, maybe required to propel you over the edge. In this scenario, semen trickles out without any pleasurable sensation, intensifying the frustration experienced.